I'm having issues with trust this week. J has been out of town for almost a month and just got back this weekend. He had 'threatened' me a month or two ago that he would just start cheating on me until I got my act together. He went back on that statement saying he never meant it and doesn't have the energy to actually cheat. He has 3 more trips before the middle of August. One he will be in California for 2 weeks and then Canada for another 2 weeks. I love him and things have been going so fantastic. I just get nervous when he spends alone time with another girl or is gone for extended periods of time where I don't hear from him to often.
Am I just paranoid? Am I a crazy girlfriend?
I've talked to someone here at work about this and they have given me good advice. They are honest and just let me know how they reacted to certain things in former relationships and such. I don't like not trusting and I don't like thinking the worst of people. I'm just not sure what to do.